All of you don't really know me because I'm fairly new here and haven't posted that much. I feel like I kinda know some of you through reading your posts and seeing the photos you share. I just need to vent and need some advice. I divorced about 4 years ago. Two years ago, I ran into an old girlfriend of mine from high school. We had "hooked up", so to speak, a couple times since school. Every time, everything seemed great for a while, then it wasn't, so we split. This time, we were together for 2 years and finally things just weren't working. After our separation this time, I had some time to really think things through for a couple months and figured out that she was the one I truly wanted to share the rest of my life with, no matter what it took. She had other ideas. She had already met someone else and was engaged a couple weeks later. This is just killing me. I know it's over, but that doesn't help. I feel this desperate need to move on and find new companionship. I'm in my late 40s and have no idea how or where to go to go about meeting new people. There is a sports bar downtown that I frequent on occasion, but can't see me getting serious with any of the women I've seen and met there. Everyone tells me I'm a great guy and shouldn't have any problem finding someone, but I am fairly reserved and don't warm up to people quickly. How do I find someone to share my life with at this point in my life? Where do you go? What do you do?