I bought the Jumbo reflector only.http://www.dembflashproducts.com/flipit/
I bought the Jumbo size directly from Demb.
This was recommended by many photographers from DWF, the Digital Wedding Forum web site.
It's a pay site for wedding photographers, $99/yr.
I like the Lighsphere results, I hate the look of the tupperware/Fong Dong diffuser.
I also use a Stroboframe Pro RL flash bracket.